It’s not you, it’s me.

If a man ever says that to you BELIEVE HIM!

Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings you can ever feel.. you find yourself questioning “where did it all go wrong?” or “wasn’t i enough?”
But the truth is you are!
There is something seriously wrong with someone if they are never satisfied in a relationship.. constantly seeking the next best thing. But that is definitely not a reflection of you.

Remember – hurt people hurt people

How a man treats you is not a reflection of YOUR worth or an indication of what you lack.

Look at Beyoncé for example, she is seen as one of the most desirable women in the world. Her and Jayz are “relationship goals” for many people. The amount of men that would swim in shark infested water just for the chance to breathe the same air as her… and Jayz still cheated on her!

I don’t think we’ll ever know the real reason why men cheat (and obviously women cheat too – were not perfect but I’m speaking about men) just know YOU are not the reason.

Being cheated on can honestly eat you alive, it has you sitting down and reevaluating every aspect of your relationship what you could of done differently.. At what point did your partner start seeking “what you were missing” from someone else? You start dissecting every little detail of who what why and where.
If you know who you have been cheated on with you find yourself comparing you & her and “what does she have that I don’t?” “why is she so special?”
What confuses me is someone that’s been cheated on knows exactly how devastating the feeling is.. so why repeat the vicious cycle and then become the cheater?
Risking it all for a “Becky with the good hair” or in my case Susan that looks like she was born a Simon. But hey ho your attracted to what your attracted to I guess *shrugs*
Butttt my point is if you are not happy in your relationship COMMUNICATE! Make it known. And if it’s not fixable call it quits..

So if at the end of your relationship your partner ever comes out with “it’s not you it’s me” say YOUR RIGHT and walk away with your head held high..

You always have and always will be enough.

Love Lucia Simone x

2 thoughts on “It’s not you, it’s me.

  1. Hi Lucia
    This is the first time I’ve seen your blogs so I’m taking the time today to read and reply.
    Men who cheat are boys. There are many reasons for this immature behaviour. They could just like the thrill of the chase. These men grow up to be lonely old men. Some can’t take commitment. But all are showing to be selfish and immature. And will always at some time regret their decision
    However they won’t change do beware of the guilty man who is full of regret seldom do they reform. X

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